CODE OF CONDUCT

Welcome to our space. We are committed to fostering a sex-positive, inclusive, and fiercely respectful environment where everyone can explore safely. To maintain the vibe and ensure the physical and emotional safety of all attendees, every guest must read, understand, and agree to the following rules prior to entry.

SHOW UP! We do our part to continuously invite more people, but a party isn't a party without YOU! You don't need to come to every event, but at LEAST show up to the first party you're invited to. That's more than a reasonable ask!
Early Arrival: Getting here in the 1st hour is best. Generally, we allow people in for the first 3 hours. Please be respectful of others' time and horniness! Guests come to see YOU and you come to see THEM. Anyone arriving after the set window is charged the Late Entry rate.
Bringing Cash? BRING EXACT CHANGE! We do not give change at the door. If you don't bring exact change, we thank you for your gratuity! Pro tip: Bring $5 bills to keep in your sock so you can easily purchase additional drinks or items from vendors inside.
Do Not Text Us! Any number we use is ONLY to send initial information to you. It's not an opening for back-and-forth communication. Everything you need is provided on this website. If it's not, show up and discover it in person!

Enthusiastic Consent & Safe Words: All interactions require a clear "YES" before they begin. We utilize the Traffic Light system (RED to stop, YELLOW to slow down, GREEN to continue).
NO, NOT INTERESTED, NO THANKS, KEEP IT MOVING: We all have preferences. If you're not interested, a simple, respectful, clear, audible response of "NOT INTERESTED" is all that is necessary. Conversely, respect the "NO" immediately without negotiation.
Zero Tolerance For Disrespect: Racial intolerance, body shaming, ignorance, and general disrespect are absolutely not tolerated.
NO FIGHTING! Is there anything more to say here? lol. Leave the drama at home.

Adult Decisions & Protection: The HoDown has ALWAYS been a safe-sex party. We provide 2 stations per event fully stocked with many varieties of condoms and lube, free of charge. Use them wisely! We also respect raw/bareback (BB) sex lovers—we're all adults, so let's make adult decisions.
Respect Boundaries: If someone desires unsafe or safe sex with you against your will, remove yourself from the situation immediately!
NO DRUGS! NO CIGARETTES! NO FLAME SMOKING! You are allowed to vape. Bring your own, or check out the vendors we may have on-site selling vapes and edibles.
NO GUM CHEWING ALLOWED! Since people can't seem to keep gum in their mouths and off of floors, carpets, sheets, doors, and walls... people can't have gum! If you're seen chewing it, you will be asked to promptly and immediately discard it.
Personal Cleanliness: Please arrive freshly showered with clean bodies, clean hands, trimmed nails, and fresh breath out of respect for your play partners.

NO Cell Phones In The Event! Your phone goes into your checked bag, NO EXCEPTIONS! This prevents unwanted videos, group distractions, and theft or damage to your phone.
DON'T BREAK/STEAL ANYTHING! It sounds silly, but people get carried away when drinking and sexing! Keep the flow and vibe nice and smooth. Be respectful of the property and assets both inside and outside of the venue.
Use Indoor Voices: It's the middle of the night during most people's sleep hours. Be considerate of other tenants and neighbors in the area!
No Loitering! Do not hang out in the hallways, doorways, stairways, parking lot, or courtyard. This draws attention and is unsafe behavior.
Keep it Clean: Bathrooms are for everyone's use. Wipe the seat, use the waste bins, piss belongs in the bowl, not on the side! Sit down to urinate to prevent a mess. DON'T BE A SLOB! Used condoms, paper towels & wipes go in the garbage. This is a home, respect it as such!

Event Monitors: Our hosts are here to keep the party safe. If you feel uncomfortable, witness a violation, or need assistance, speak to us immediately. We have your back!
Immediate Ejection: Violating rules around consent, privacy, loitering, or safety will result in immediate ejection without a refund and a permanent ban from our community.

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