1. You must arrive before 1am. Last Call is at 3am. The party ends at 4am.
  2. There are NO CELL PHONES, GUM OR CIGARETTES ALLOWED. Cell phones are a distraction to the flow of the party, not to mention someone might take it. So, leave the cell phone in your bag with the rest of your stuff! Guys can't seem to keep gum in their mouths and off of floors, carpet, sheets, doors, and walls.
  4. DON'T BREAK ANYTHING! It sounds silly, but people get carried away when drinking and sexing! Keep the flow and vibe nice and smooth, be respectful of the things around you. This applies to things in and outside of the apartment/hotel. Be respectful of the property and assets on the property.
  5. NO, NOT INTERESTED, NO THANKS, KEEP IT MOVING ETC all mean they aren't interested. Do yourself and them a favor, leave them alone or you will be asked to leave. This includes safe/unsafe play, be respectful!
  6. USE INDOOR VOICES. It's the middle of the night, during most people's sleep hours. Be considerate of other tenants/guests!
  7. NO LOITERING! Do not hang out in the hallways, doorways, stairways, parking lot, or courtyard. This draws attention and is unsafe behavior. Single occurrences result in immediate banning from all future parties  
  8. NO DRINKS IN THE DARK ROOM! To maintain a clean party, keep your drinks out of these areas. This is to prevent drink spillage and waste of alcohol.

HoDown Dress Code

There is a mandatory clothes check at the door. Below you'll find dress codes that are acceptable to enter into the party once you have checked your clothes and belongings. 

Friday HoDown: Keep it simple, boxers, briefs, jockstraps, etc (or less). No shirts of any kind. If you need pockets, wear long socks! FYI, naked guys make parties start quicker. Shoes are allowed. You may choose to go barefoot, wear socks, flipflops, or athletic slides.

Please arrive dressed like a normal person. Neighbors and street people should not see you walking up to any location in your Jock Strap. It sounds silly, but it's happened before! Use common sense. If you don't have any, borrow someone else's! You'll be given a numbered bag for your clothes/belongings upon your entry. Everything is locked away for safekeeping.

Condom Usage

The HoDown has always been a safe sex party. We provide condoms to you, free of charge, and motivate you to use them appropriately. In late 2017, The HoDown opened its doors for raw sex lovers. Please respect the sexual practices of others. We're all adults, so let's make adult decisions. If someone is trying to have unsafe/safe sex with you against your will, remove yourself from the situation and get a HoDown worker. If you need a condom and don't have one with you, ask ANYONE for a "CONDOM" and someone will hand-deliver a condom to you! Be safe and play responsibly.

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