The HoDown does not have a super strict door policy. However, sloppy isn't universally sexy to the masses and our aim is to keep our parties sexy! This makes the guys come back for more. We generally look for average-bodied to muscular-bodied type MEN who appear to be 21-50 years of age. There are more parties on the future horizon to capture every audience as everyone needs a lil bit of luvin!

Our intention is to invite a variety of guys to help please the masses. Youthful bodies and great personalities are the goals, but there is no script to be followed or hard rules of thumb. Email your face AND body pics to and include your sexual position and body stats to be considered. We'll go from there.  If you don't send everything requested, the approval process takes much longer. Your pics are never saved or shared with anyone under any circumstances. DL guys are welcome but you are NOT exempt; you get the same treatment as everyone else! Fair is fair. 

We target those living and visiting the New Jersey, New York, Pennsylvania, and Delaware areas. Once you're invited you may bring guests if you like. It is YOUR responsibility to relay our website to them because the rules apply to everyone. "I didn't know" and "It's my first time" are not excuses! It's a good idea for your potential guests to have their own invitation.

If you wish to come, email us a face & body pic to, include your sexual position, and which party you want to attend. If your pics don't show what we're screening for, we'll reply asking for more photos. Save time and send good pics that show a clear face along with your torso (preferably shirtless but not nude). Once you are approved, you will receive an EVITE invitation. Please read each invitation as it may have different or updated information than before. You wanted to come, so remember to come!

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