From The Host

I, Fuzzy, am the creator and host of The HoDown. I've managed and operated the party and have served as the main promoter since April of 2011. My purpose in throwing this party is to provide a safe and sexy place for men in New Jersey, and surrounding areas, to meet and have sexual fun. The HoDown is about connection and awareness, not just sex!

Speaking of sex, safe sex and safer sex behaviours are always encouraged. This doesn't mean that the RAW lovers can't come and enjoy! The HoDown is inclusive, which only means a better party for you! We're all of legal age, and information is available to everyone. Please be responsible and educated in your sexual decisions. Remember, more than HIV is out there, #ProtectYourself! Stealthing will not be tolerated, get a staff member involved if you need.


I provide drinks, condoms, lube, toiletries and more! My food corner dubbed "Fuzzy's Eatery", designed to get you flavorful crafted sandwiches & mini-meals you can't get anywhere else, may also be available pending our location. 


As new ideas are being presented, new venues contemplated, and other variebles, the party spaces amenities may vary. Please be patient as we find and settle upon the best location for The New HoDown!


Upon arrival, please follow the instructions you were given in the text message or email you received. If you do not read AND pay attention, you might end up in the wrong place. You then call the designated number, follow instructions, enter, pay, check clothes and have fun! When you want to go just grab me and let me know.


In my promotional searches, I seek in-shape guys, of any race with youthful looks and vibes from the NJ, NYC, PA and surrounding areas. Variety is the spice of life and every day I add guys to my list of contacts in efforts of creating awesome parties that differ from the previous one. I do my job of inviting you and sending you information, however it's up to you to come and make the party awesome!

Again, this party is nothing without you. Please do your best to support when you can and bring someone with you. I'm one person and can't reach everyone. There's 3 different parties per week and I try my best to not cancel any party to keep consistant. Help me throw great parties by attending the great parties!


Thanks a million times,

Fuzzy!