Thanks for stopping by! You've probably heard about us from IG, Facebook, Grindr, Jack'd, Scruff, Sniffies, Twitter, Tumblr or one of the many places/apps we have profiles. Yes, this is a real party! The HoDown is hosted in Elizabeth, NJ, from 11pm-5am on Friday nights, 12pm-4pm on Monday afternoons, and 8pm-12 Midnight Wednesday evenings. We start ON TIME and end ON TIME! This means you should arrive ON TIME! Parties are every Mon, Wed & Fri unless we cancel in advance. 
The goal is to provide consistent parties as often as possible. The purpose is to provide a safe place for Jersey guys to meet, network, and explore sexuality in a chill low-pressure environment so they do not need to travel to NYC for a good time.

Mondays are $20 while Wednesdays & Fridays are $25. ALL in-person transactions are with Debit/Credit cards, Cashapp,  Venmo , Zelle, PayPal, or Apple/Google Pay. NO CASH PAYMENTS ACCEPTED!!!

What is The HoDown?  It's a 18+ (based on appearance and maturity) adult sensual and sexual social. Events are for MEN who enjoy being sexual with MEN. We have a laid-back vibe, chill, making it comfortable and easy to get your freak on!

Click INVITATIONafter reading thru our website, and fill out the Request To Join Form. Yes, it's quite a bit of info, but this information allows you to see exactly what The HoDown is all about. So PLEASE, read thru and discover something new! When you have decided you wish to attend, fill out the Request To Join Form. Once approved, you'll receive your Email/SMS invitation! 

  • By attending our events, you agree to abide by the rules and details that are outlined throughout this website
  • Sex and sexual acts are likely to occur (not mandatory or required)
  • We're a chill, low-key and homey type of party with good vibes, food & drinks. We expect you to respect that vibe! If you're expecting hardcore from the gate, bring your hardcore energy!
  • The HoDown is what you make it to be! Have an open mind, and be ready to have FUN!
Please use the links located at the top of the website to browse our website. When you're ready to attend, follow the instructions and send ALL the requested information to be considered.