(Complete the Request To Join Form. Pending your approval you'll be sent invitations for the event(s) you requested)

You are expected to understand English when you arrive. We do not speak Spanish. If you speak Spanish or any other language, please use the Google Translate tool to the right of the website. The Staff ONLY speaks English! 
Se espera que entienda inglΓ©s cuando llegue. No hablamos espaΓ±ol. Si habla espaΓ±ol o cualquier otro idioma, utilice la herramienta Google Translate a la derecha del sitio web. ¡El personal SOLO habla inglΓ©s!

Thanks for stopping by! You've probably heard about us from IG, Facebook, Grindr, Jack'd, Scruff, Sniffies, Twitter, Tumblr Snapchat, or one of the many places/apps we have profiles. Yes, this is a real party! The HoDown is hosted in Elizabeth, NJ, Monday from 8pm-12 Midnight and 11pm-5am on Friday night. On special occasions we host a special 12-Hour event from 5pm-5am.

Please do not ask us if there's a party, BECAUSE THERE IS!
You will find any canceled events posted in the SCHEDULE section of the website OR to the right of the website.
We start ON TIME and end ON TIME! This means you should arrive ON TIME! Regular HoDown parties are EVERY Mon Evening & Fri Night unless we cancel in advance (look to the right side of the website). Additionally, there are special Saturday Events that require separate sign-up. Click [ HERE ] to sign-up for those events and for more info. 
The goal is to provide consistent parties as often as possible. The purpose is to provide a safe place for Jersey guys to meet, network, and explore sexuality in a chill low-pressure environment so you do not need to travel to NYC for a good time.

Regular HoDown events are $25. ALL in-person transactions are with Debit/Credit cards, Cashapp,  Venmo, Zelle, PayPal, or Apple/Google Pay. NO CASH PAYMENTS ARE ACCEPTED!!!

What is The HoDown?  It's an 18+ (based on appearance and maturity) adult sensual and sexual social. Events are for MEN who enjoy being sexual with MEN. We have a laid-back vibe, chill, making it comfortable and easy to get your freak on!

Click INVITATIONafter reading thru our website, and fill out the "Request To Join Formto join regular HoDown Events. Click "Saturday HoDown Sign-Up" to sign up for Saturday events. Yes, it's quite a bit of info, but this information allows you to see exactly what The HoDown is all about. So PLEASE, read thru and discover something new! When you have decided you wish to attend, fill out the Request To Join Form. Once approved, you'll receive your Email/SMS invitation! 

  • By attending our events, you agree to abide by the RULES and details that are outlined throughout this website
  • Sex and sexual acts are likely to occur (not mandatory or required)
  • We're a chill, low-key and homey type of party with good vibes, food & drinks. We expect you to respect that vibe! If you're expecting hardcore from the gate, bring your hardcore energy!
  • The HoDown is what you make it to be! Have an open mind, and be ready to have FUN!
Please use the links located at the top of the website to browse our website. When you're ready to attend, complete the Request To Join Form (Here).