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DRINKS

The HoDown offers a Top Shelf Bar with premium brands of spirits for you to enjoy for only $5 each. We have a selection of Signature Top Shelf cocktails available all freshly made to order. There are also Hard Seltzers (Truly, White Claws, High Noons, etc), Beer, Wine, & Energy Drinks (Red Bull, Celcius, etc) for $5 each.

There's a bartender available during the event to make your drinks. The host, Fuzzy, may also make your drinks along with any other HoDown staff member. It's not a self serve bar!

Check out the selection below:

Signature Drinks

Seltzers, Beer & Wine

High Shots

How this works:

Purchase drink tickets when you enter
Bring $5 bills to pay as you go
Tap your card or smartwatch and pay as you go
NO TABS!!!

There are a few fine print details to go over:

DO NOT BECOME INTOXICATED (TOO HIGH/DRUNK)!
The purpose for drinks/shots is to make ease the shyness and to make you feel more comfortable. DON'T BE A FISH!
NO drinks are served within the last 30 minutes of any event.
High Shots are limited to two shots per party.
Drinks are while supplies last. If we run out, that's it!
NO DRINKS TO GO!
If we feel you are drunk, we WON'T serve you. It's for your safety and the safety of others!
Repeat drunken behavior will have you removed from our contact list.

Read thru ALL the links at the top of our website? Familiar with how The HoDown works? Click/tap the link below, read through the events, think of which events you want to attend, and then Request entry into the appropriate Telegram group(s)!

https://www.the-hodown.com/2015/03/invitation.html

The All-Male HoDown events hosted in Elizabeth, NJ.

THIRST

Hosted from 8pm-12am on select Wednesdays (see the schedule for next event). Entry is $25. ONLINE 2-person entry (couples or friends) is a discounted $40. Discount drink specials from 8pm-9pm:

2 drinks for $8 (tickets are for drinks only)
4 drinks for $15 (tickets are for drinks only)
After 9pm, drinks are $5 each

Please note, this party ends at 12am and you can arrive all the way until 11:59pm. All entries after 11pm are charged Late Entry $40. It's cheaper to show up earlier when more guys are ready to mingle. Tardy to the party guys leave with full balls!

You may wear socks (long ones recommended) or inside slippers (not the ones you wore to walk in) AND 1 body article from this list:

boxers, briefs, thongs, G-strings, bikinis, lingerie, jock straps, singlets
tank tops (aka A-Shirts), t-shirts, crop tops
harnesses, cages, leather gear
masks

What you CANNOT wear into the event:

No jeans, shorts, sweat pants, jackets, coats
No sweaters, long sleeve shirts, hoodies, onsies
No outside clothes
No sneakers, shoes, slides, boots, cleats, heels or any other outside footwear

It's Wednesday and the middle of the work week. Perfect for blowing off some steam. You can show up all the way until the ending of the event but it'll cost you $40! If it's busy you'll be lucky to get in on all the fun until we decide the party will end! Heads up... at 11pm the porn goes off, the lights get even dimmer and the action gets more intense! Last call at 11:30pm. Cum and do what needs to be done!

Bare Saturdays

Hosted from 9pm-1am on select Saturdays (see schedule for the next event). Entry is $25 for NAKED entry and $30 for CLOTHED entry (undies only). You can bring slippers to change into. Show up anytime from 9pm-1am. After midnight entry is Late Entry is $40! Get here early to avoid the late arrival costs!

NAKED IS THE NORM! You're attending the event for the action! The less clothes you wear, the faster the action starts! If you're THAT GUY who wants to disrupt the naked vibe and hinder party-action progress, you can wear your undies (briefs/boxers/jockstrap/trunk etc.) for an extra $5. Want to keep your t-shirt or tank on also? Add another $5!

Naked Game Night

Hosted from 9pm-1am on select select Saturdays (see schedule for the next event). Entry is $25 for NAKED entry and $30 for CLOTHED entry (undies only). You may bring slippers to change into. Show up anytime between 9pm-1am. Heads up, all guys entering after 12am are charged the Late Entry $40! Get here early to avoid the late arrival costs!

It's an orgy that you can play games at. It's a Game Night that you can have sex at! It's all the above!!! For someone who is new to the orgy scene, this is the most recommended event. It's a low pressure environment that gives you social options, sexual options, and gaming options all in one place without judgement. Test the waters a bit and try it out! Whether you're a pro to the sex party scene or just a beginner, you'll definitely enjoy this event.

Again, NAKED IS THE NORM! The idea is to normalize nudity & naturism in a safe sexually charged environment. Play games as an ice breakers to provide social engagement opportunities for guests to become more comfortable in their skin. Picture it as a fun distraction! Partake in video games, card games, board games, man-games and so much more!

FuK-n-Go

Entry is $25 before 4pm and $40 afterwards. Spend less and get here earlier so the fun will start earlier! Event hosted from 1pm-6pm. The dress code is undies and shirtless with socks. NO SHIRTS! Clothes how fast the action gets started and just like the market, guys wanna see where and who their fun will come from! To the self conscious fellas, don't worry too much... there are NO LIGHTS AT THIS PARTY. The porn plays for the 1st 2 hours and then gets shut off, making it even darker! Make sexy responsible choices!

As the name suggests, this isn't one of those events where you go to chat and have deep meaningful convo, it's one where you come, strip, and get down to business. Yes, can still talk, but remember why you came or want to come! 😈

Drinks and food are available at this event for $5 each.

The event space holds 40-45 people.

WHO'S INVITED? YOU! Guys of every race, aged 21-45ish, average bodied or sexier are welcomed to request to join. All-Male HoDown events for individuals who were assigned male at birth AND currently identify and present as men. If you are transgender, whether trans-man / trans-woman / or trans-nonbinary, you're officially welcome to request an invitation to our CoEd HoDowns ( https://www.the-hodown.com/2024/01/CoEdHoDown.html ).

WHERE ARE EVENTS? Events are hosted in Elizabeth, NJ. It's a 6 min walk from North Elizabeth Train Station and 12-15 min walk from Elizabeth Train Station. There are busses (59, 24, 112, 113) and trains for public transportation. Close by NJ Turnpike, Parkway, Route 22, Route 1&9 highways.

WHAT IS THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN THE ALL-MALE EVENTS? The price, dress code, time of event, day of event and the event's theme differ. There may be special deals that are also event specific also.

Check out the RULES and the FAQ sections of our website to dive a bit deeper.

Read thru all the info? Familiar with how All-Male HoDowns are run? Click/tap the link below to request entry into the All-Male HoDown Events group on Telegram:

https://forms.gle/HDvbzfRGLzA9EB2G8

Request An Invite Into Our Telegram Group(s)!

USE THE LINKS AT THE TOP TO NAVIGATE THROUGH OUR WEBSITE.

⚠️ How Our Invitations Work ⚠️

First, all of our event info is posted in a Google Forms event link for each event as it occurs. These links are posted in our Telegram announcement groups. There is one group for All-Male events and another for the CoEd events. If accepted for one, you are NOT automatically accepted for the other. If you want to attend BOTH events, you must request to join BOTH groups!

These groups are for our event ANNOUNCEMENTS ONLY! Meaning, it's NOT a group chat with unnecessary messages from strangers. They do NOT have access to your info and you CANNOT see theirs! Everything is private.

The request is our screening process. We are an inclusive party and do not discriminate on race, age, or body size. We do consider what our current turnouts are and approve based upon attendance to keep the crowds diverse for everyone's general comfort. Once approved, you're send an text/email with a direct link into the Telegram group(s) you requested to join. This message contains some suggested privacy option selections you're advised to toggle/adjust.

Once you're in the Telegram group(s), you will see the next posted event along with a Google Forms Event Link for that specific event. Update your attendance status to show whether you're attending or can't/won't make it. When you commit to attending, you're then able to see all the event specifics, discount info and more. Additionally, you're sent a copy of your completed form. This copy contains everything that you view when you commit to attending (the event address, contact number, arrival instructions, helpful map links &more). SAVE THIS EMAIL!

The same Gmail account you used to request your invitation should be the same Gmail account you use to update your attendance status and to sign in when you arrive. It's a bit of lengthy signup, but our events are definitely worth it! None of your photos/info is ever shared or posted. It's only used for screening and sign in purposes. It's the ONLY way to receive an invitation into our Telegram groups.

If you do not currently have a Google account, you do NOT need to get another email. You may set up a Google Account using your current email from whoever you use (yahoo, icloud, aol, ymail, protonmail, etc). Go to create your Google account. Enter your credentials (name age etc). Then when selecting an email, there's an option to "use existing email". Here's Google instructions on doing this:
https://support.google.com/accounts/answer/27441?hl=en#zippy=%2Cuse-an-existing-email-address

Thanks for your interest in HoDown events and hoping to see you at the next event!

OUR ALL-MALE HODOWNS

All-Male HoDowns are for cis-gender men. Trans men, please do not be offended. You're more than welcome to attend the CoEd HoDown Events. Below are the events and times:

THIRST: SELECT Wednesdays from 8pm-12am

BARE Saturdays HoDown: SELECT Saturdays from 9pm-1am

Naked Game Night: SELECT Saturdays from 8pm-12am

FuK-n-Go: SELECT Saturdays from 1pm-6pm

Summer Sundays: SELECT Sundays from 8pm-Until (Pending attendance and activity.

OUR COED HODOWNS

The CoEd HoDowns are events where men, women, trans, non-binary persons are invited. It's also an event where all sexualities are welcome (straight, bisexual, curious, gay, lesbian, pan & more). Singles, couples and throuples are all invited! Below are the events and their times:

CoEd Kink Night: SELECT Fridays or Sundays from 8pm-1am

CoEd Game Night: SELECT Fridays or Sundays from 8pm-1am

Ladies Night: SELECT Sundays from 8pm-1am

CoEd Day Party: SELECT Saturdays from 1pm-6pm

Request an invite into the Telegram group(s) by tapping/clicking the "REQUEST" links below! PLEASE make sure you have read through ALL the information in other areas of our website BEFORE requesting an invitation into the Telegram group(s). Here are the links:

[ REQUEST ] 🠈 ALL-MALE EVENTS GROUP
[ REQUEST ] 🠈 COED EVENTS GROUP

*ANY FORMS SUBMITTED FOR ANY EVENT ALREADY IN PROGRESS MAY RECEIVE A DELAYED RESPONSE/APPROVAL*

IF YOU DO NOT REQUEST TO JOIN, YOU WILL NOT RECEIVE AN INVITATION TO THE EVENT(S).

ANYONE WHO ALREADY HAS AN INVITATION ARE WELCOME TO BRING A GUEST. IF YOU DON'T WISH TO COMPLETE A FORM, FIND SOMEONE WITH AN INVITATION AND TAG ALONG.

Any information uploaded is NEVER shared with anyone. We delete all forms once a month. We hold your privacy, and the privacy of others, with the upmost respect. Please do not let photo verification get in the way of your good time!

THIS IS A PRIVATE EVENT! YOUR APPROVAL IS NOT GUARANTEED! IT'S A REQUEST!

NJ LGBTQ+ Businesses

Ever have a preference for the type of professional you wish to support? Here's the place you might find what you've been looking for! Below is a list of NJ professionals who are a member of the NJ LGBTQ community. A list of Allies of our community will be located below that. Please email me at hodownparty@gmail.com in efforts to get on this list.

NJ LGBTQ+ PROFESSIONALS

NJ ALLIED PROFESSIONALS

SEXY SUNDAYS

The Sexy Sundays HoDown is a MEN ONLY event that happens Sunday evening from 8pm-Midnight. This is not an every Sunday party. Please see the HoDown Schedule for the next scheduled event.

Entry is $20. The Dress Code is NAKED! This means no clothes at all! NO G-Strings, NO Jock Straps, NO lingeree... NO CLOTHES!!!

The HoDown offers a Top Shelf Bar with premium brands of spirits for you to enjoy. Just $5 each. We have a selection of Signature Top Shelf cocktails available all freshly made to order. There are also Hard Seltzers (Truly, White Claws, High Noons, etc), Beer, Wine, & Energy Drinks (Red Bull, Celcius, etc) for $5 each. Please grab drink tickets when you enter or have $5 bills when you order.

Famished? Need some energy? Try some food from The HoDown Shoppe! Just $5 each and freshly made to order! Find Fuzzy during the event and order with him.

Read thru all the info? Familiar with how The HoDown is run? Click/tap the link below, fill out the form, and submit your request to join The HoDown here:

http://www.the-hodown.com/2015/03/invitation.html

Where Are The Events?

We host events in Elizabeth, NJ, Wednesday, Friday & Saturday evenings/nights. See our SCHEDULE for a complete list of upcoming dates & times of events.

While we are pretty inclusive, this is a private party. This means the event address, along with any contact info, are only disclosed in the event invitation you'll receive AFTER requesting to join our events and being approved.

The current event space is in a decently sized 1br apartment about 6-8 min walk from the North Elizabeth NJ Transit Train Station and about 12-14 min walk from Elizabeth NJ Transit Train Station. Both NJ Transit train stations are located in Elizabeth, NJ. Capacity is about 40-45 people, giving you an idea of how big the space is. HEADS UP... parking sucks, but it's not impossible. The invitation contains a link that provides parking locations, and step by step walking instructions directly to our front door. Plan ahead and arrive earlier to have more chances of parking.

If there is a change in venue at any time, the location change will be CLEARLY communicated in your invitation. As always, please read ALL details within your invitation to ensure you always have the correct information and go to the correct location. See FAQ for more details...

In the scenario that we reach capacity, the event will be extended. Anyone who arrived when we were at capacity will be called back, in the order they called, and granted entry.

https://www.the-hodown.com/2015/03/invitation.html

CoEd HoDown events are orgy socials for men, women, non-binary, and trans individuals who are straight (hetero), bisexual, curious, gay, lesbian, pansexual, queer and any other letter of the alphabet! Singles, couples, throuples, poly-ships and swingers are ALL welcomed and encouraged to join the fun.

Ideal guests for CoEd events should be open-minded, sexually fluid, and consensual adults who value respect above all else. It’s all about fun, exploration, and sexuality without limits. To be 100% clear, while this event is open to everyone, you do not need to have an interest in everyone and/or everything. You need only to be comfortable in YOUR own sexuality in a space where everyone else is also comfortable with THEIR sexualities. It's about exploring and experiencing sexual freedom in a safe environment.

For the enjoyment and comfort of everyone, this event is probably NOT for you if you are:

Close-minded and sexually single-sighted.
Possessive or easily jealous regarding your partner and/or friends.
Sensitive about being immersed in diverse sexual energies.

The CoEd HoDown events hosted in Elizabeth, NJ.

CoEd HoDown

Hosted in from 8pm-1am on select Fridays or Saturdays (see event schedule for next event). Entry is $20 when purchased online and must be purchased by 11:59pm the day before the event. It's $30 if you choose to pay in person or if you missed the timeframe to purchase online. You may now arrive anytime during the party! Here's the catch... anyone arriving after 11pm is charged Late Entry $40. We want people to get to the event early. So, we want to reward the timely people with the cheaper price. We also don't want to cut anyone off who wants to show up at the last minute!

This is a kink/fetish type sex party. Yes, it's a sex party or a orgy, but you can also network with other guests, make connections, all while engaging in "other" activities! Bring your favorite kink and see how it all comes together! NO WATER SPORTS!!! The vibe is chill, relaxed and laid back. You're attending because you have an itch you need scratched and/or some kinda sexual fantasy you wish to play out. It's about fun and good times! So, let's have some!

CoEd Game Night

Hosted in from 8pm-1am on select Fridays or Saturdays (see event schedule for next event). Entry is $30. Feeling daring? Want to bear it all? Ask for the Naked Entry and pay only $25! You may now arrive anytime during the party! Here's the catch... anyone arriving after 11pm is charged Late Entry $40. We want people to get to the event early. So, we want to reward the timely people with the cheaper price. We also don't want to cut anyone off who wants to show up at the last minute!

The CoEd Game Night is the perfect introductory event for people who are curious about sex parties and orgies. It's an orgy that you can play games at. It's a Game Night that you can have sex at! It's all the above!!! For someone who is new to the orgy scene, this is the most recommended event. It's a low pressure environment that gives you social options, sexual options, and gaming options all in one place without judgement. PLUS... If you're looking to experience people and sexuality without limits, there's a lil sexual something for everyone at the CoEd Game Night! Doesn't matter if you're a pro or just a beginner, you'll definitely enjoy this event!

You can play games anywhere, get freaky anywhere, or mix and mingle anywhere at the event. We've set the stage for you! Think less "sex-forward" and more "social-sexual," meaning you have the full power to choose how you engage. Mix and mingle, take a break, or get intimate—it's all up to you!

CoEd Day Party

This is essentially the daytime version of the CoEd HoDown. It starts at 1pm and ends at 6pm. It's only hosted on select Saturdays. There are 2 tiers of discount tickets available prior to the event date. You may now arrive anytime during the party! Here's the catch... anyone arriving after 4pm is charged Late Entry $40. We want people to get to the event early. So, we want to reward the timely people with the cheaper price. We also don't want to cut anyone off who wants to show up at the last minute!

Ladies Night

Hosted on select Fridays or Saturdays from 8pm-1am. This is quite a special CoEd event where ladies make up half of the party, OR MORE! It's designed specifically to have woman feel safer and more comfortable. The intention is to have an event where you don't have to worry how many women will be present... it's their event!

Single ladies are definitely welcome, but if you're a single man, you'll need to have a female with you. This is STRICTLY ENFORCED!!! For this event, females are defined as Cis-Female or Trans-Female and males are defined as Cis-Male or Trans-Male. Crossdressers are men and will need a female for entry.

To ensure the event is a populated success, 15 Online Tickets must be sold by 11:59pm on the day before the event. If 15 tickets aren't sold beforehand, the event will be canceled and all tickets purchased will be refunded! If the goal is met, then those who prefer to pay In-Person may pay when they arrive.

PRICING:

$30 for Single Females (ONLINE ONLY)

$50 for Couples - M/F or F/F (ONLINE ONLY)

$40 Single Females In-Person

$70 Couples In-Person - M/F or F/F

In-Person Entry comes with 1 drink per person.

NO SINGLE MEN AT LADIES NIGHT!!!

To The Men... If you show up without a female to the CoEd Ladies Night, YOU WILL NOT GET IN! Couples need to arrive and enter together.

You may now arrive anytime during the party! Here's the catch... anyone arriving after 11pm is charged Late Entry $45. We want people to get to the event early. So, we want to reward the timely people with the cheaper price. We also don't want to cut anyone off who wants to show up at the last minute!

Request your invitation into the CoEd HoDown Event group on Telegram. We'll announce the event when it comes up and you can purchase your event tickets then! Also, the schedule has the dates of all upcoming CoEd Events.

DRINKS

There's a Top Shelf Bar with premium brands of spirits for you to enjoy. We have a signature cocktail list, along with beer, wine & Red Bull. We also offer THC infused shots (limit 2 per guest). All for just $5 each. Check out the drink & shot selection HERE.

FOOD

Famished? Need some energy? Try some food from The HoDown Shoppe! Just $5 each and freshly made to order! Find Fuzzy during the event and order with him. Check out the food selection HERE.

The event space holds 40-45 people.

WHO'S INVITED? YOU! Guests of every race, aged 21-45ish (appearance matters more than the number), average bodied or sexier (we're pretty inclusive) are welcomed to request to join. CoEd HoDown events are for individuals who are open-minded, sexually fluid, and comfortable being themselves around others who are being themselves without judgement. Have fun, explore, experience sexuality without boundaries or judgement!

WHAT IS THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN EACH COED EVENT? The vibe, attendance and level of expected activity! The CoEd HoDown and the CoEd Day Party are more sex-forward while maintaining a social element. The CoEd Game Night is more a social event where sexual activity may occur. The CoEd Ladies Night is where you'll find a 50% female attendance minimum and it's likely there are more women than men and would also be more sexual than social. We never know who or how many people will show up, how many women/men will be in attendance, or when folks will show up. That part is determined by YOU the guest! We do our part by providing a safe place, setting the vibe, and putting the word out. Ultimately, YOU MAKE THE PARTY!

Read thru all the info? Familiar with how CoEd HoDowns are run? Click/tap the link below to request entry into the CoEd HoDown Events group on Telegram:

https://forms.gle/gakU59fpMEjJVfMh7

Saturday HoDown Sign-Up

NJ LGBTQ+ Businesses

Where Are The Events?